Just something for sharing...
Recently, I came across a lady who is in her 30's? She was crying all the time and talking to herself. The room was dark as there was no light and the room was in a mess. Her parents kept saying she is insane and wanted to send her to mental hospital....
Few months ago...
This lady was a educated young lady who was about to register marriage with her boyfriend. They also had a beautiful house ready. She was just one step away from the happiest moment of her life, believing with her heart and soul...It was then when the unexpected happened, her boyfriend did not turn up for the registration and was no where to be found. Their future house also became 'inaccessible' as well. It was just too much for her and she had a serious nervous breakdown since then.
Lesson learnt: Believing in something is good but never overdo it i.e. become fixated. I always believe in "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst". Have a flexible thinking.
*Don't get the wrong idea, I'm not telling you not to believe in your partner....just that this lady's case, the guy really is a bastard! XD
梦お画がくよ...私の生命...
Being loved by someone is really happiness. It doesn't have to be boyfriend or girlfriend relationship. Parental love is.
Not long ago, my mum just visited and we have so many things to talk about. It has been about 1 year since I've last seen her. She looked a bit older than before, I know it's obvious but it really indicates that time is still moving forward...maybe just a bit too fast? For my dad, I think about 2 years already since I've last seen him? I wonder if he's still as young as before? ^__^
Though we chit-chatted about many things, she seemed more concern about my well-being and my future than myself.
Seriously, I feel our parent's love for us is really filled with ultimate warmth and protection...sometimes their presence itself suffice to make us happy. Last time, when we used to live together, I would sometimes find them troublesome & not understanding. Only when they are a distance apart from me, I realise that I had been protected all the time. They interfered so that I can be focused and 'be on the right track'. I sincerely believed that all parents loved their children and willing to give their all for them...thus I urged everyone out there to cherish their parents when they are around you.
Thank you Mum & Dad. Wish both of you good health and see you soon~